Teach CARBON_KIND_SWITCH to handle mutable lvalues and rvalues, and
CARBON_KIND to forward along rvalues so that it's possible to write
`case CARBON_KIND(const T& t)`, `case CARBON_KIND(T& t)`, and `case
CARBON_KIND(T&& t)`, depending on the type that was passed to
CARBON_KIND_SWITCH.
Replace all uses of VariantMatch with their equivalent of a switch using
CARBON_KIND_SWITCH, and remove the VariantMatch helper from the
codebase.