Iterators, smart pointers, optional, and expected types depend on
`operator*`. This commit adds `CppUnsafeDeref` as a core interface, with
an associated function, so that the compiler can dereference
user-defined C++ types.
Things not implemented in this commit:
* `operator*` overload resolution
* SemIR lowering
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Co-authored-by: Richard Smith <richard@metafoo.co.uk>