When finding an executable, this validates that the returned binary is a
symlink back to the same thing as /proc/self/exe, also using that as a
fallback for different things.
Looking back at #3912, we started using `findProgramByName` in order to
avoid path canonicalization done by `GetMainExecutable`. That created
issues as in #5096, wherein an `argv[0]` that's not explicit enough
(`llvm-symbolizer` instead of the full path, done in [LLVM's
Signals.cpp](https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/blob/4f60f45130c6bd96c79e468fe9927a29af760f56/llvm/lib/Support/Signals.cpp#L198))
leads to incorrect results (finding an `llvm-symbolizer` in `$PATH`).
One option to fix this would be to patch LLVM to provide an absolute
path for `llvm-symbolizer`. However, I'll suggest that passing a
filename in `argv[0]` is not terribly uncommon, and could be a migration
limitation if we force it. The failure mode is also opaque; for example:
```
$ /bin/sh -c "exec -a llvm-symbolizer ./bazel-bin/toolchain/carbon"
error: expected carbon-busybox symlink at `/usr/lib/llvm-19/bin/llvm-symbolizer`
```
Combined with the `setenv` of `LLVM_SYMBOLIZER_PATH` in
`busybox_main.cpp`, this is intended to fix#5096.
This also factors out the code for doing this location from the driver
to a tiny helper library.
The motivation for this is letting tests locate data files like the
prelude or other files needed by the toolchain more easily. A subsequent
PR will use this heavily in the Clang runner and related logic for
example.