Move self to the explicit () parameter list (proposal #7016) (#7272)

Implements proposal #7016: `self` moves from the deduced implicit list
(`fn F[self: Self]()`) to the front of the explicit list. Its type may
be written explicitly (`fn F(self: Self)`) or omitted, in which case it
defaults to `Self` (`fn F(self)`, `fn F(ref self)`); `self` in the
implicit list is rejected.

Throughout checking, `self` is modeled as the first explicit parameter.
Because a method is just a function whose first parameter is `self`, it
can also be called as an ordinary function with the receiver passed
explicitly (`Type.M(obj, ...)`), not only as `obj.M(...)`. A new
`SemIR::CallArgParamPatterns` helper chooses the parameters matched
against the explicit arguments, excluding a leading `self` only when it
is supplied as a method-call receiver; arity checking, conversion, and
generic deduction use it. The resulting SemIR and lowering are
unchanged: `self` is still `call_param0`, and witnesses, thunks, and
vtables are unaffected.

An omitted `self` type is parsed as a `SelfBindingPattern` node with no
type expression; checking synthesizes the `Self` type so it behaves
exactly like `self: Self`. However, the exact spelling used must match
between a forward declaration and a definition, following #3763's rules
around declaration matching.

Generated functions, thunks, and C++ interop import/export build `self`
as the first explicit parameter, and the `self`-type override (e.g.
Derived->Base for a virtual override) applies to the explicit `self`.
Placement is validated by new diagnostics: `SelfInImplicitParamList`,
`SelfNotFirstParam`, and `SelfOutsideParamList`. The benchmark source
generator and the documentation adopt the `(self)` shorthand; the
prelude, the examples, and the test data are migrated in the following
commits.

Assisted-by: Claude Code with Claude Opus 4.7

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Co-authored-by: josh11b <15258583+josh11b@users.noreply.github.com>

toolchain/check/testdata/function/declaration/extern.carbon

@@ -63,10 +63,10 @@ class C {
   // CHECK:STDERR:
   extern fn F();
   // CHECK:STDERR: fail_member_extern.carbon:[[@LINE+4]]:3: error: `extern` not allowed; requires file or namespace scope [ModifierExternNotAllowed]
-  // CHECK:STDERR:   extern fn G[self: Self]();
+  // CHECK:STDERR:   extern fn G(self);
   // CHECK:STDERR:   ^~~~~~
   // CHECK:STDERR:
-  extern fn G[self: Self]();
+  extern fn G(self);
 }
 
 // --- fail_extern_library_in_importer.carbon